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Tips for Safer Casual Sex in a Covid-19 World

Dating in the post-Covid world is a lot more challenging than it used to be, but there are still a lot of things that you can do to have a great time and stay safe when looking for casual hookups!

Avoid sex parties and large gatherings. If you do attend large gatherings or decide to have sex in a group setting, please be sure to follow COVID-19 precautions.

Limit your sex partners and hookups to people in your social bubble and people that you know and trust.

If there are not enough sex partners in your social circle, then enjoy sex virtually. Things such as online adult dating sites, video dates, sexting, sexy Zoom parties or chat rooms are a great way to find someone to hookup with. You can still have a lot of fun with virtual sex, and you can stay safe not just from Covid, but also from other sexually transmitted diseases. Also, it's easier to have virtual sex with more partners ;)

If you do meet for sex in person, wear a face mask, even during sex! Wearing a face mask over your nose and mouth adds a layer of protection.

Make it kinky. Be creative with sexual positions and physical barriers that allow sexual contact while preventing close face-to-face contact.

Masturbate together. Use distance and face masks to reduce the risk of getting sick while you help each other get off!

Wash up before and after sex. Wash hands and sex toys with soap and warm water. Disinfect keyboards and touch screens you

share with others.

Even though things are still kinda rough, the virtual and online world offer all of us a chance to have fun times with sex partners around the world in a safer way. Virtual online dating is a huge part of life now and we're sure that you'll enjoy finding sex partners, cheaters, and local fuck buddies on our sites. Get to know them online, then when you feel safe you can bring them home.

Do's and Don'ts of casual sexual encounters and adult dating sites

Here are some do's and don'ts to help you make sure you're having a good time, staying safe and being a good fuck buddy:

DON'T: Don't text her at all hours of the evening. Just because she is having casual sex with you doesn't mean you should be bugging her all the time. She might be married...

DO: Always use a condom and make sure to get tested for STD's regularly. Also, look out for cold sores and don't have casual sex with women who look like they may have had a lot of unprotected sex.

DON'T: Don't stay too long. You're there for casual sex and not a relationship. Remember, she might have just fucked you, but her husband or boyfriend could be coming home any minute.

DON'T: Don't cuddle after sex. Remember you are trying to keep this a no string attached night. You're there for sex, and once you are done you should not be giving her the wrong impression.

DO: Keep repeating to yourself before, during and after sex, that this is just about sex and not love. That good feeling you are getting while she is riding you or giving you a blowjob is not love...

DO: Experiment and keep things wild. You're not there to make love, you're there for crazy sex, so make it crazy. Ask her if you can tie her to the bed, or ask her if you can cum on her face. Chances are she is meeting you for local casual sex because she wants to try new things too!

DON'T: Don't be mean to your casual sex partner. Remember, this could be the first time she has ever had sex with a random local stranger too. She could be nervous, and you probably are too. The goal is to have fun and have sex and to go home laid, not to go home angry.

What are some tips for meeting up and hooking up through adult dating sites?

There is probably nothing better than hooking up with a hot local girl or meeting up for a one night stand while your travelling or while the wife is away (nobody is judging...) but there are a few things you should always keep in mind:

1. If you live in a large city and you are looking for local girls for sex, you might accidentally see someone you know. If you do, hit her up and see if she wanted to have sex with you, but remember that she is local and you might have the same friends or know the same people.

2. Never spread rumors or share information about the local women you are talking to. They are simply looking for a good time and should be comfortable doing so. By spreading rumors or sharing private information about the girl, you might scare her into deleting her profile. Always respect the girls that are online looking for local hookups, just as you would want them to respect you.

3. Chances are, that if you are trying to meet local women for hookups, dates, casual sex, or even serious relationships, you might end up bumping into them again. Some of these girls might be the girl next door, or a co-worker, nurse, doctor, or anything in your area. You could easily run into past and present casual sex partners, hookups, fuck buddies and friends with benefits in public. Remember to be discrete and respectful.

4. Be discrete! This is very important! When you are online using a casual or adult dating service, discretion is very important. Chances are, you don't want everyone to know you are cheating on your wife, and most girls don't want half the town knowing she has a profile on an adult or casual dating site.

What are 5 Greatest Perks of Casual Sex?

There are many perks of having friends with benefits (or fuck buddy), and if you've never had the pleasure of having one, please let us inform you of all of the great reasons why you should try. Not only do you get the sexual satisfaction of any great relationship but you can skip all of the BS that they entail by remaining to be as single as ever but not sexually deprived.

Number 1 - You Get Instant Satisfaction

When you have a friend with benefits, there is nothing wrong with sending the late night text or planning out your sex nights with them. If your friend is always available just like you, then you could be getting instant satisfaction within a couple of minutes. There is no working up to try and persuade whoever you're dating that you're finally ready to take the relationship to the next level, but instead you're already at the level and get crazier every time.

Number 2 - There's No Drama

Every relationship has drama, even if you're the most perfect couple on Earth but having a casual relationship can help you avoid one less drama filled interaction in your life. The moment that drama starts happening, which can happen because people start to have feelings, then you can cut them off without any backlash. There is no harm in blocking or deleting any casual sex partner that is trying to cause you any drama because that was the whole point of being in that type of agreement.

Number 3 - There Are No Rules

All of the texting and dates and feelings bullshit is out of the window. There aren't rules when it comes to how many times you should be fucking during the week or texting to plan things. It depends on the mutual availability and whether both of you are still interested in pursuing this rendezvous.

Number 4 - You Can Save Money

Those gifts and dinners and gas that you're spending your hard earned money on can go straight into your wallet because you don't get to spend any of it. Obviously, maybe a little bit of gas if you need to get to your fuckbuddy's place, but you can always swap places, so that evens out.

Number 5 - There Is No Effort

You can skip the shallow talk about trying to get to know someone when all you want is in their pants No need to try and find things you have in common or any similarities when in reality you can just get down to business the second you guys are alone. Obviously, you might want to put effort into your physical appearance and personal hygiene to keep a fuck buddy, but not the kind of energy you need to maintain a serious relationship.

What are some tips for casual/adult dating?

You've just gotten out of a serious relationship and now you've decided to try a casual adult dating. Where do you start? Are you rusty? There are a few things that you can keep in mind that will help to ensure that your casual relationship remains safe, fun, and most of all, casual.

1. Always make sure to be honest about wanting to keep the relationship casual. After all, you do not want to mislead your partner into thinking you want more when you're really just looking for casual sex.

2. Remember to never spend the night, because this gives your partner the impression that you want to move beyond a casual relationship into a more serious one.

3. Remember that you are not the only one in a casual relationship. You're looking for a local girl that will have sex with you, and chances are that she is just looking for sex too. You're going to talk to hot, sexy women and she will probably end up talking to sexy men or woman as well. This is a casual sex date.

4. Always take care of yourself. Make sure that, when you meet up, you are clean and ready for sex. With casual adult dating, she will be more likely to refuse sex if you do not look clean and ready to go.

5. Remember that she is a fuck buddy, and that you are looking for hot sex and nothing more. Always, ALWAYS, wear protection.

6. Casual dating lets you try new things. Maybe you've always wanted a threesome, or maybe you have never had sex with a blonde. Maybe, you want to be tied up by a hot MILF. Remember to have fun and be adventurous.

What are some tips for better no strings sex?

No string sex is one of the best things that can happen to you. You get to have sex with local women without all of the burdens of a real relationship, like remembering birthdays or anniversaries. All you have to do is remember where to meet and fuck. Here are some tips on making no string sex even more fun:

1. Always remind yourself that this is no strings sex. Remember to remind your partner as well. Both of you are just looking for some sex, and not some attachment. Remember to be clear with your intentions as well. Also, it may be perfectly fine to be friends with your casual fuck buddy, but remember to draw the line there.

2. Your fuck buddy is not your wife or your girlfriend, and she probably isn't the first person you should run to when you need to talk. When you are in a no string sexual relationship remember to make it all about sex and not all about you. Nobody wants to listen to you about your ex-wife or your problems at home. Like you, she is there for sex, so make sure to keep it that way.

3. No strings attached sex is the best way to live out a fantasy and to try new things in bed. Always remember, however, to be respectful of her wants. Remember to try everything. If you both want a threesome, why not? If she wants you to tie her to the bed, go for it. Make the most of your time to experiment and make the most out of sex, but don't cross the line.

4. Don't get stuck with just one girl, try out a few. The best way to have fun casual sex is to rotate sexual partners frequently. This will keep your levels on confidence high, and will make it easier for you to remain discrete and avoid attachment. Who knows, you might even be able to get all the girls to fuck you at the same time :).

Why should I try looking for sex on adult dating sites?

Casual adult dating can be a great thing! It allows you to meet up and hook up with sexy local women who are looking for all sorts of fun. Also, it gives you all of the benefits of dating, such as sex, without you having to give up the fun and excitement of being single and lets you try things you can't always get from your wife. For example, maybe your wife does not like to give you blowjobs. Chances are you are going to have no trouble meeting a local sweethears that will be willing to suck you all night long, right? Or, maybe you've always wanted to tie a girl up to the bed and fuck her. Again, there is probably going to be a local girl online who is looking for just that.

How do I pick up women on adult dating sites?

This may be a bit of a tough subject since there are a lot of people out there who seem to think that adult dating websites are fake or that they are used to promote prostitution/escort services, but adult dating websites are actually a really good place to meet lots and lots of women
The truth is that you can play around for months and years and spend hundreds on adult dating websites without any success if you do not know what you are doing, and this is why we are here to help!

There are four main steps that you can use to help you hook up with more women:

STEP 1: SIGN UP FOR THE FREE TRIALS

First you need to get accounts with the best adult dating sites and use their free trials to snoop around the sites. Try to avoid paying anything upfront because you want to see if the girls are hot and if the accounts seem realistic. You also want to look for sites where the ratio of men to women is good. There is no point in signing up to a site which has many guys and very few women since your chances of success on such an adult dating site are much, much slimmer.
Try to take some notes on which site you liked best based on the following (at minimum):

* How many women are registered on the site and do they look like real account?
* What is the ratio of women to men?
* How easy to use is the site that you are on?
* What profile elements are you able to see? (For example, what can you see about the girls? Are they able to provite photos/videos? Is there a messaging limit? etc.)

STEP 2: SETUP AN INTERESTING PROFILE

After you have selected the site or sites that you want to try meeting women on, you need to make sure to properly set up your profile. This is where a lot of people can make or break their online dating success. For example, some people will put a bunch of nonsense and garbage in their profile info or they will use old, outdated, and poor quality photos. Other people will write up profiles talking about love and romance. You have to remember that most women on these sites are also looking for casual or NSA sex and you're only going to scare them away by talking about love and romance.
There are the elements of your profile that you need to pay extra attention to:

* Your profile pictures - You need to make sure that your profile pictures are always up to date. Try to make sure that your photos are no more than 1-2 months old, and try to make sure that your photo clearly shows your face and body from the waist up. This does not mean to upload "sexy" half nude or nude photos. You should test and rotate our your photos to see which ones get more women's attention.
* Additional Photos - Always try to include a variety of normal pictures, such is pictures of you hanging out with friends or playing a sport, going to the pool, etc. AVOID posting any nude pictures!! Even on adult dating sites, this is a bad idea. Women like what they don't see almost as much as they like what they see. This means that they will be thinking more about whats in your pants if you don't post it as a profile picture. You always want to leave something to the imagination.
* Videos - Some of these sites will allow you to post short videos. If they do, consider putting up a short video if you talking into a webcam. All you need to do is say that you are looking to meet a normal girl who is looking to have some fun. You never want to say anything too freaky in these videos.
* About You - Try to be as truthful as possible. You may also want to try and be playful and/or bashful but the point here is that you need to be yourself. Most women are looking for a normal guy to have sex with, and not marriage or someone who is potentially creepy, so you want to be careful what you say. * Sexual interests – Write about what you are looking for in a girl, but remember that you want to turn them on and excite their curiosity and not scare them away. Try to imagine romance novels when writing this part...not hardcore porno.

Just like you want to avoid profiles that look really fake, women want to do the same. The more real and normal you seem on your profile, the more women will respond to your message, or will even message you!

STEP 3: START MESSAGING GIRLS

Once you are happy with how your profile looks, you are ready to start contacting and messaging women. Here are some important rules to consider:

* You want to make them WANT to read your message!
Pay a lot of attention to the subject line, because that is the first thing they will see. If they don't like the subject they will just delete the message. The subject line needs to do one of three things:
* Make them laugh or giggle
* Make them curious about what you have to offer
* Be compelling

For example:
BAD - "Hey nice tits babe!"
GOOD - "WARNING: Cute Guy Alert - Wanna meet-up sometime?"

As you can see, on of these will definitely not work, while the other one is kinda silly, and rouses curiousity...

STEP 4 - KEEP TRACK OF GIRLS / MEET-UPS

As odd as it sounds, you should try and keep track of who you have contacted, as well as some information about them and information on if and when you have actually met them.
The best way to do this is to keep some sort of spreadsheet of all of the girls with some info (as odd as this sounds, it is important):

In the sheet you want to have at least the following:
* Name – The full name of the girl you messaged
* Date – The date and time you contacted her
* Replied – Has she replied to your message?
* Phone Number – If you have her number, keep it here. You don't want to have 100 phone numbers from girls on adult dating sites in your phone...
* Hooked up – Did you manage to meet with her and/or hook up? Is there potential to keep hooking up?
* Notes – What are some of the things you have talked about? What are her interests? This one is IMPORTANT! You don't want to get your girls confused...

Additional Tips and Advice:

SITES TO AVOID!

There are some sites that you simply want to avoid. For example:

Craigslist - The fact that CL is free is a bad sign. It's also dangerous to use for online dating, especially casual sex. Free sites - It may sound odd, but you want to AVOID THE FREE DATING SITES! The reason you pay for adult dating sites is because that weeds out a lot of the bad, and it also helps pay for admins/moderators who audit and remove fake profiles etc. Just look at it this way...how many people will want to pay hundreds of dollars to maintain a fake profile? Social Media sites like Facebook - If you don't believe this one...just watch "Catfish." Facebook is full of fake/stolen profiles. Again, you do not want to take chances on free sites or sites not intended for adult dating.

TELLING WHETHER AN ACCOUNT IS FAKE

There are a few things you can do to tell if an account is fake. This will help save you time and will also help you avoid scammers and escort services posing as dating sites. Remember, though, that the top paid sites get screened constantly by support teams to prevent fake accounts, so they are very few and far between (again..this is why you are investing in a paid dating site to begin with!).
Here are some tips to figuring out profiles:

* Do they show their face? If they don’t show their face there is a high chance that they are escort who do not want to be identified.
* Are all of their photos sexual? Just like you added some normal photos you would expect them to as well. It's harder to fake a profile with an abundance of different pictures.
* Is she wearing the exact same clothes in all of the photos? If it looks like a photo shoot, then it is probably a fake account...
* Is their English REALLY bad? Having bad english isn't necessarily a bad thing but you need to be careful because you could be talking to a man in Nigeria...
* Did they contact you with a very forward message? If they are messaging you and they are being very direct, impatient to meet up, and forward, you can probably assume that the account is fake. Remember that even though these women on the sites are also looking for casual sex, they are still going to be reserved because they are probably getting a lot of messages from a lot of men. If they sound desperate, then something is wrong...
* Do they not own a phone or camera? It's the 21st century...pretty much everyone has a camera phone. If they don't that's because they either can't talk to you because they are not who they say they are.